Bullying from the Metaphysical Perspective
by Velia IAMLoveatWork@live.com
Bullying as aggressivity behavior can be felt as emotionally and physically damaging, however it also affects mentally all the playing roles individuals, since it effects the belief system of the individual, regardless of their role in the bullying situation. A bullied might acquire the belief system that he/she is deserving of whatever attitude is being victimized or abused of, whereas bullies might have already acquire the belief system that he/she deserves to threaten others in whatever way he/she has chosen to…
Both bullies and bullied individuals might have a prone genetic background which in addition to the favorable environment, affects and controls their behavior. Just as much as the MAO- warrior-perpetrator gene might affect bullies’ actions, bullied individuals might also bear other genes or even a mutation of this same MAO gene. This gene on the contrary would affect their own actions and make them feel victims beforehand, therefore, attracting and drawing bullies to them. Besides the genetic background of bullies and bullied individuals, there is a karmic component, tightly associated and also affecting their genetic background. Bullies might have been a bullied individual in past lifetimes.
In addition, individuals in general tend to be good at or get use to certain abilities or act upon more of some attitudes, though some bullies and bullied individuals might have been used to these behaviors for quite some time and are carrying these attitudes for several lifetimes. Bullying is their main environment, therefore are becoming just that only, their life style so to speak.
In addition to the above, are the passive bullies or supporters of the bullying who actually enjoy forming part of the bullying actions? They might also be used to this behavior and feel more comfortable within this environment which satisfies their way of being.
Bullying might be as a way of discharging stress and emotions on something or someone, in order to empty our bodies from accumulated baggage. Bodies are accumulating all emotions and thoughts along with their associated energies. Therefore and when the body is about to burst open and explode bullying emerges as a safety scape valve to prevent more internal mental-Emotional-Body damage. In fact this is the reason for which bullying manifests.
Simplistically speaking, bullies feel somehow superior to their bullied counterpart pears. An ego issue is always involved and power struggles are at stake. In other words bullies feel the perpetrator of their victimized bullied. Bullies consider bullying acts as powerful or empowering whereas bullied see bullying as part of a compassionate settings for victims who might get more attention just by being bullied. In this regard Munchhausen syndrome might be an extreme expression of bullying.
Bullying has always existed, but why are we concentrating more on it now? This is because we are now more aware of its effects and know that this is not the ideal behavior that we choose to live these days. We all want a healthier society, family and friends environment. Hopefully we can overcome it!